Success is the music you bring into your life! Success is the joy you allow yourself to experience, no matter how challenging or unpleasant a given moment. Success is looking outside the window and really REALLY seeing the sun, or the stars, rain, snow, wind; the flowers, blades of grass or pebbles of sand. Success is really being here now. Success is knowing down to your toes that you have within you the creative capability to change whatever results you are getting to the results you prefer...
Success is whatever you want it to be.
Success, therefore , is an INSIDE JOB!
We spend much too much of our lives do-do- doing without prepaving our way to success. There are a lot of theories about success- many of which would paralyze most people before they ever get started on the route to ther hearts' desire. In fact, as you approach people with your business opportunity, I'll bet you are finding that there are people with beliefs about success, financial freedom, time with their families, and radiant health which are all dependent on a definition of success that requires super-himan feats and greatness to actualize; and therefore, they resist and decline your business opportunity in network marketing. In fact, many turn you down cold, and you find you are not "getting" people for your business. Maybe, your propect's paralysis is but a reflection of what you believe has to be so?
As women we know how to "do-do-do-it-all," So much so that we tend to plow over people on our way to the getting there. This really doesn't leave much room on the highway of life for other leaders to emerge in our business. The greatest challenge for women in network marketing is that we have deeply engrained in our psyche that it's going to take super human feats to get "there". THAT WE MUST DO IT ALL! We must coach, cheerlead, encourage, nurse people along to keep them producing, propecting and enrolling, wait, be patient, coach, cheerlead, handhold!
Does this sound familier? It's the nurturer in all of us. We deeply believe that the people in our organizations simply cannot make it without us behaving as if our only job was to be the Engergizer Bunny banging our drums keeping everybody on task. NO, NO, NO- stop, please stop and give it a rest for just a moment!
The "there" that you are looking to achieve, is right here and right now. Success comes from the ability to visualize the life you want- hold rigorousl to that vision. Don't "Do" anything yet. Let's just do the "insidework" to the success you want first, and then the physical manifestation is on its's way.
Pre-Paving your way to success you are a success! That's right. Everything you could ever need or want is already inside of you, some of which you've already actualized, some of which you have coming forth, and some of which is just YOU where you stand right now. Accepting success is as simple as a choice. A choice to act, a choice for courage, a choice for grace. It's really all up to you as to whether or not you'll let yourself have it right now.
There are two steps today's woman must utilize with great discipline and consistency before "do-ing" anything. Don't do anything until you have taken the time to do these two steps.
1. Decide what you want.
2. Imagine if you will.
As women seeking the highest levels of financial and personal success through network marketing, we must get our minds around working smarter, not harder- that is, if we really are going to have it all!.........
(more on the Two steps tomorrow)
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