Step 1: Decide What You Want

Now this may sound simple enough, but is it? There is nothing like the power of the made up mind. And there's nothing like the power of a WOMAN'S MADE UP MIND, and you all know what I mean. Your families know what I mean. Your pets know what I mean, and so do your neighbors across the street. Because once you DECIDE- watch out! Things start happening in a big, efficient and effective way.

So why don't we live our lives this way efficiently and effectively everyday? Historically in this society, women have been taught to wait. Wait on someone else to decide! You know it's true. This has nothing to do with right or wrong, good or bad, and certainly nothing against men. It's just been part of our conditioning; that's all. There's never been a time like this before, where women are stepping into their greatness and their power, where women are wanting to take full responsibility for their lives and with this, will come greatness to all: Men, women and children. We are living in extraordinary times. It's as if we are all being asked to be what we came here to be and not succumb to mediocrity.

To do this means we must do differently than we've ever done before. Because the "do-do-doing" of our conditioning will overwhelm us and paralyze us until we can do nothing at all.

A woman's best friend is her heart. In deciding what you really want, you must trust your heart. The pull inside of you that feels good, right, and for the good of the whole.

Our conditioning, with both men and women, has been not to know what we know, feel what we feel or want what we want. The ONLY way to levels of success that you seek is to be courageous enough to KNOW what you want. To DECIDE, and decide and decide again and again UNTIL you have it EXACTLY the way you want it.

We have to give up waiting for someone else to decide, for someone else to take the risks, for someone else to make things happen. WE must decide for ourselves precisely what we want. We must trust ourselves to know that what we want is right.

There is no Failure, only results! If you don't like the results you are getting, change them! Decide how you want your business to be. Decide how you would like it to grow. Decide how big, how massive you want it. Decide how much time you want to give it. Decide how you want to treat people. Decide how much you want people to do on their own, with or without your influence, energy or time.

When you make a decision of how you want it to be in ever aspect of your life, you will find yourself communicating those desires clearly, and people will now hear you in a new way.

Indecision is a decision not to decide. Your indecision comes through equally loud and clear. And the results of your indecision will keep you from the success you seek. So go ahead and just DECIDE how you want it to be. Don't worry about how, just decide and stand firm in your mind upon that decision, and success will be yours.